The worst has happened.

UPDATE: I'm leaving. It sucks. This hurts. I'm physically fucking sick over it. I was so disgustingly in love with this man and ready to start our life. And now it just feels like Thanos snapped his fingers and its all gone. Poof. I try to pride myself on being a silver lining girl, and at least we aren't legally or physically bound to one another.

But holyairball this shit was not on my bingo card. Thank you all so much for the outpouring of love, support, and advice. It's truly appreciated. I blocked all of his buddies phone numbers, and his mother's too. My ride is coming with a uhaul. One day I'll look back and thank my lucky stars that everything happens for a reason. ❤️❤️

My fiancé is currently in Vegas for his bachelor party. He has been there for maybe 30 something hours. Last night before bed I had a sick feeling. My gut was telling me something was wrong, something was off. I had intuition to look through his things and the first drawer I opened had his apple watch in it.

I went through his texts and low and behold he was chatting it up with two unsaved numbers. I reverse searched them and they came back to two women. I checked his social media for their names and came up empty handed. Then I thought, man, there must be something within his social media! My fiancé is a very simple guy, so his password was too easy. I logged into Snapchat and what do we know.

The second dm under my name is a woman, a woman he just added yesterday! As soon as he got into Vegas. The conversation goes beyond friendliness and at the end there are some nice provocative photos shared.

My heart. Is. Broken. We are supposed to be wed in 1 month and 7 days from today.. I called him and honestly spiraled. I've been up all night digging and searching and trying to make a map of this bullshit. He didnt stand a chance on the phone. He tried to lie and act like he didnt know why I was losing it. I told him if he continues the charade I'd have all my things packed before he arrives home this week. Well, he fessed up. I dont feel better. My mind is scattered. I'm in complete shock and I have no idea what to do right now..

CALL. IT. OFF. get out while you can. He clearly does not respect you. Also this sets the tone for the entire marriage. I can imagine this is extremely painful and heartbreaking. Lean on the others you can in your life & if no one there retreat within yourself for support 🫶🏼

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