MOH got drunk and confessed to be in love with my fiancé.

To start off, and before I get attacked, she's been uninvited because she told me to my face (in front of several family members and friends) that "he could have done better." She has only met my fiancé ONCE in her life, and I'm 100% sure of this.

Here's what happened: We announced our engagement to my family and friends two months ago, but I had a family party to celebrate with some close friends and family members (the MOH and the bridesmaids, as well as some cousins, aunts, my mom, etc). The girls made lots of delicious cocktails, we played some games, and everyone was having fun until MOH started getting dizzy on her +5 Jello shot. And miss ma'am starts getting wild. Can't stop laughing. No one knows what she's laughing at but we all laugh anyway.

All of a sudden she goes off about how lucky I am, how she never thought her gamer, alternative, "weird" friend would get married and how my fiancé is probably out of my league so it's "100% luck, you hit jackpot." She starts praising the man, we're all like "uuuuh," trying to get her some water so she can sit down and shut up.

Cousin starts getting really angry, calls her out for saying those things, so they start screaming at each other. I'm trying to call her a cab so she can leave before my family stones her. My mom finally asks her to stop. She says something like, "Jackie, you don't want people to get the wrong idea. I don't think you're meaning to say what you're saying right now." But Jackie just. won't. shut up. And she says, "Well, if I've been there...the story would have been different." (My fiancé and I met on the last year of college, she went to college overseas for 4 years, which is why they've only met once for like 30 minutes).

And that's when I exploded and told her she wasn't coming to the wedding anymore. Not if she's going to say all those things to me, in my own house.

I know she was drunk, but I just can't forget what she said. Some of the bridesmaids feel really bad for her and are asking me to let her be part of the wedding party. I'm not sure if I'm wrong or not. She hasn't talked to me since that night, but we've been friends for many years, so I feel like maybe I could talk to her about it? It's just weird. I was thinking of letting her come to the wedding as a guest, but the ANGER with which she says those words won't leave me alone. Thoughts?

You did right. You don’t need that drama. She would probably get equally drunk at your wedding and make a scene.

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